2007年10月8日星期一

不同的想法

人真的是种很奇怪的动物。虽然大家都是人,但是却有着不同的想法。当然,这种想法是或多或少受家庭背景的影响。

一直以来,我就很喜欢去站在别人的角度去想同一件事情,你其实会慢慢发觉不同的人,处理的方法真的大有不同。有些做法我举脚赞成,有些事情你把脑袋挖空也没有办法去了解为什么有些人可以怎样奇怪。 突然,很想去读哲学,去了解其他人的脑袋和思维逻辑。

人总是喜欢把有一样的想法的人当作朋友,或者更贴切点说,只要那些人和你的想法没有太大差异,这些人你就可以称之为朋友。或者更深入一点说,你能同化一些人的想法,或者是要身边的朋友赞同你想法时,你就会觉得这些人是你的好朋友。哈哈!

如果根据以上的说法,是不是觉得我们根本没有所谓的朋友。你只能说,你身边的朋友都只是你的同伴,顾名思义,朋友也只是一个伴。不能放太多的想法在朋友身上。

说了一大堆废话,我不知道自己想表达什么,只是很想说,人 - 真的很特别。

1 条评论:

bryan_shiro 说...

Hi!

Well, I agree that we like to hang out with people or friends with same wave length as us, but come to think of it, as we admit that there are so many types of people out there, why not we just be sure of our own principle and stick to it, while making friends with people of different lifestyle and opinion? Accept what they are and at the same time learn from them.
It is good in my opinion that we can try to open up our eyes to the many life style and opinion of different people. We might not agree fully with all other people opinions but some of them might be useful. Well, just have an open mind and the knowledge and sometimes wisdom might flow in to us while we are observing.

Below book is a good read in helping us understand more on this topic. I think many of us read it liao...

How to Win Friends & Influence People (Paperback)
by Dale Carnegie (Author)

http://www.amazon.com/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/0671027034/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/104-2659871-1062354?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1191896587&sr=8-1